All of us have a voice in our head…This voice holds so much power, power to lift us up and encourage ourselves with compassion to keep pressing on, believing that we are worthy and of value. This voice also holds power to keep us small, quiet, believing ourselves to be insignificant, unworthy, and shame-filled.

It is so good to long for good things. Ideals are purposeful and not to be dismissed. Should we not strive for peace, kindness, order, and love in our homes and in the world? Yet, what do we do with the continual dynamic of facing the reality of what is when our ideals are not manifested? ...When our ideals do not come to fruition...when we are left with pain and deep, deep disappointment, heartbreak, grief, and despair.